Positive praise is one of the most effective ways to encourage wanted behaviors from students. Because building habits is not an easy task, here are a few things you can do to start easily incorporating positive praise in the classroom.
- Be prepared with positive phrases
- Develop the most effective wording
- Start Small with two areas you would like to see improved behavior
- Practice in the Classroom and watch the effect it has on your students
- Grow and expand your positive phrases over time as you master the habit
Be Prepared with Positive Praise Phrases
I distinctly remember trying to help pre-service teachers build the teaching habit of positive praise. I would make suggestions and then observe. Trying to implement my suggestions wasn’t as easy as you would imagine – these teachers would glance in my direction and start the sentence “I like the way you’re . . .” and then trail off without knowing what to say.
Teachers want to use positivity and affirmation with their students, however, in my experience, they don’t always have the appropriate words ready to praise good behavior. Building the teaching habit of positive praise starts with getting the right words ready.
Recently I was reminded of this key component of building the new habit of making more positive statements. I wanted to personally develop this positive statement habit, but for some reason was not making the progress I had hoped for.
I quickly realized that I was making the same mistake I had watched the pre-service teachers make. I was unable to make more positive statements because I did not have any in mind that were ready-to-use.
To build the habit of making more positive statements, I would have to start memorizing some key phrases to keep on standby, ready to use when I needed them.
Positive Praise Example Phrases: How to Develop the Right Wording
The first step in positive praise is learning and developing the most effective wording. Using effective wording means you are getting through to your student, and clearly communicating that you appreciate the good behavior they are exhibiting.
Praise is most effective when it is prompt – when you deliver the praise in the moment. Can you picture a specific scenario in your classroom when many of the students are not doing as you asked, while a few students are dutifully following instructions?
This is the perfect scenario to use positive praise not only in rewarding students with good behavior but also encouraging other students to follow suit. Don’t be afraid to praise good behavior loud and proud for the rest of the classroom to hear!
Here are some examples of positive praise:
- Look at Alan so smart sitting in his seat and showing me he is ready to learn. Way to go, Alan.
- I see Beto is tracking with his finger while Claudio is saying the facts. That’s the way to help your partner!
- Julia, you are so sharp having your eyes on the teacher, so you can learn! I am impressed.
- Stacy and Sophia know just what to do, they have their books open to page XX. They are so on top of it!
- Fantastic, Justin! You put your pencil down and are waiting for directions. I can tell you’re going to college.
- Stephanie is being such a great on-task student by working quietly and not talking.
Start Small: Pick Two Key Behaviors You Would Like to See More Of
Start out by choosing wanted behaviors from the two most annoying or frustrating scenarios you face as a teacher. Stating small will help you build a consistent habit of giving positive praise.
Take these two wanted behaviors and build two praise statements you can easily use in-the-moment. Make sure the statement names the behavior specifically. Always include the student’s name, and keep it simple and affirmative.
Now, take a note card or piece of paper and write down these two statements. Don’t wait! Write them down now and keep this note in front of you while you teach. It will serve as a reminder throughout your day to incorporate positive praise as much as possible.
Practice saying these phrases aloud until you have them memorized and can recall them without having to think about it. The most important step in building this habit? Actually practicing positive statements in the classroom.
With these key components and diligent practice in the classroom, you will quickly build the habit of positively praising your students.
Positive Praise in The Classroom: Will it Make a Difference?
Fortunately, positive praise is free and can be implemented at any time throughout the school year. Start using positive praise now, and watch how your students respond.
Prepare yourself for giving positive praise when you are about to begin those frustrating scenarios. When the activity begins, look for opportunities to praise the behavior you are looking for when you notice students who are off-task.
You will see results when you use positive praise genuinely and with enthusiasm. You will know it is working if you watch for those distracted students taking notice of who is being praised. If you notice this happening, keep it up. The more praise you give for wanted behavior, the more that behavior will occur.
Grow and Expand Your Positive Praise Habit
Now that you know how to promote a specific behavior with positive praise, you can systematically develop statements for all your troublesome areas. Every time students are not doing what you want, think of what you want them to do instead. Behavior analysts call those replacement behaviors.
Positive praise can also be used creatively alongside other motivational tools in the classroom. When I began my teaching career I was in the habit of scolding behaviors I did not want. Early in my career, I learned the effectiveness of positive praise and began incorporating it into my daily routine.
When I saw the behavior I wanted I would give loud and proud praise for all to hear. I decided to couple this by adding marbles to a jar every time I gave praise, as an added motivational tool – so students could see how well they have been doing. It worked wonders on increasing wanted behavior.
Building new habits is never easy, but I can personally say that as a teacher, learning to incorporate positive praise into your teaching routine will not only help students learn, but it will save you a lot of frustration!